Found some photos of Pam's and my weddings as only Pam came to mine and none of us went to Pam's.
The one's of mine unfortunately don't show Pam but you can see her husband Rob just behind my head. He has the dark beard - facial hair for men featured strongly at my wedding!!
In the one of us signing the register I seem to have a look saying 'didn't I get a good one' and I think Derek is checking my spelling of 'Hutchison' !
Pam had lost so much weight, hadn't she? This was before she had cancer.